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Laura Wiley Haynes, also known as Laura Haynes Collector, is an American realtor and anti-transgender activist. Haynes has worked with anti-trans hate group Genspect and helped write a 2024 brief to the Supreme Court in support of Tennessee’s state ban on trans healthcare for young people. Haynes was suspended from Twitter for anti-trans views, later reinstated by Elon Musk following its purchase and rebranding as X.
Note: for the American Christian anti-trans psychologist who retired in 2018, see Laura Haynes.
Background
Laura Wiley Haynes was born on August 21, 1961 and grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area. Haynes earned a bachelor’s degree from Brown University in 1983. Haynes later earned a master’s degree from Bennington College in 2012. Haynes published the poetry collection After the Comet Hits in 2012. Prior to marriage and children, Haynes reportedly worked in film production, development, and screenwriting.
Laura Collector is a realtor with California agent license #01328234, issued in 2002. Collector has been affiliated with Sotheby’s International Realty and serves Santa Barbara, Montecito, Carpinteria, and surrounding areas.
Haynes married Robert “Bob” Collector (born 1948). They have three adult children.
After having children, Haynes wrote part time from home and became active in La Leche League and Bradley Method childbirth coaching. In 2015 Haynes became a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for foster youth.
Anti-trans activism
Haynes was a signatory on a 2024 amicus curiae brief prepared by Terry Lee Fowler and presented to the US Supreme Court in US v. Skrmetti, a case challenging Tennessee’s ban on trans healthcare for young people. That brief describes Haynes as a “desister & section co-author.”
Selected writing by Haynes
Haynes, Laura Wiley and signatories (October 15, 2024). BRIEF OF AMICI CURIAE THE LARGER DETRANSITIONERS COMMUNITY INCLUDING PUBLIC OFFICIALS, HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS, AND RESEARCHERS IN SUPPORT OF RESPONDENTS. US v. Skrmetti , No. 23-477 https://www.supremecourt.gov/DocketPDF/23/23-477/328719/20241018182632065_241012a%20v2%20AC%20Brief%20for%20efiling.pdf
Haynes, Laura Wiley (August 13, 2023). Universal Early Childhood Daycare Has Been Proven to Damage the Children Who Have Been Through It. Year Zero https://wesleyyang.substack.com/p/universal-early-childhood-daycare
Haynes, Laura Wiley (March 3, 2023). How Early Trauma Thwarts Right-Brain Development. Genspect https://genspect.org/how-early-trauma-thwarts-right-brain-development/
Haynes, Laura Wiley (February 15, 2023). Gender Identity Through the Lens of Developmental Trauma. Genspect https://genspect.org/gender-identity-through-the-lens-of-developmental-trauma/
Media
Some Kind of Therapist with Stephanie Winn and Laura Wiley Haynes (September 9, 2024). 126. The Kids Aren’t Alright: Parenting, Failure to Launch & Gender Distress with Laura Wiley Haynes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdU0xalJWr4
Some Kind of Therapist with Stephanie Winn, Amy Sousa, Robin Atkins, and Laura Wiley Haynes (May 6, 2024). 108. #Babygate: The Heretical Notion That Mothers Matter | Amy Sousa, Laura Haynes, & Robin Atkins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpOPSOHgnNY
Known Heretic with Amy Sousa and Laura Wiley Haynes (March 22, 2024). Critical Conversation: Laura Wiley Haynes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUSJbqv5QD4
Some Kind of Therapist with Stephanie Winn and Laura Wiley Haynes (January 16, 2023). 40. Early Childhood Development, Trauma, and Attachment, with Laura Wiley Haynes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=roCcreozsq0
Resources
Laura Collector (lauracollector.com) [archive]
X/Twitter (x.com)
Substack (substack.com)
The Rumpus (therumpus.net)
- Laura Haynes
- therumpus.net/author/laura-haynes
PACEs Connection (pacesconnection.com)
- Laura Haynes Collector
- pacesconnection.com/member/laura.haynes.collector