Stanford Children’s Health (stanfordchildrens.org)
- Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital
- The Teen Health Van — Mobile Clinic Program for Adolescents
Rady Children’s Hospital (rchsd.org)
- Gender Management Clinic
UCSF Benioff Children’s Hospital (ucsfbenioffchildrens.org)
- Child and Adolescent Gender Center (CAGC)
San Francisco Department of Public Health (sfdph.org)
- Dimensions Clinic (dimensionsclinic.org)
- San Francisco community center for LGBTQQ youth
Children’s Hospital Los Angeles (chla.org)
St. John’s Well Child & Family Center (wellchild.org)
World Professional Association of Transgender Health (wpath.org)
- Member search: California
National Center for Transgender Equality (transequality.org)
- ID Documents Center | California
Human Rights Campaign (hrc.org)
Williams Institute (williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu)
Check out my list of Los Angeles resources for several great youth-oriented programs.
Dimensions Clinic is a clinic exclusively for young queer/tg people, and it’s been around for almost 10 years. They have over 50% trans clients, roughly half MTF and half FTM. It’s one of the only clinics in the country that implement a harm reduction model in our work and does not use “gatekeeper” tactics when folks are attempting to receive services.
I got the following note in July 2006:
I wanted to let you know that CA now has a new set of forms for gender change only with no publication requirement. the forms were released in July 2006. The transgender law center in Sf has a link to them.
http://www.transgenderlawcenter.org/do/formlinks.html (direct link)
I received the following instructions from a contributor in November 2004:
http://www.tsroadmap.com/reality/name/California_name_change_info.pdf (requires reader)
Those without the reader or those who need the live links can also view the materials in html:
A reader sent this report in December 2004:
I have just recently applied to the state of California for a legal name change. So far the court costs have been $375.00; however, in California you can apply for a waiver of court fees. I have had to run an ad in a local paper in my case the Union Tribune San Diego. The cost of the ad was $475.60 for four weeks of an ad once a week– mine is on Saturday. My court date is 1/14/05 in Superior Court, but I supposed to be able to call the day before the court date to see if it has been approved. I am however changing my last name also, so I think it might be a little more difficult. I will keep you advised.
A reader sent the following in June 2003:
While it is possible to change one’s name through the common usage law in California, most Federal documents, like a passport, cannot be obtained until the name has been in use for at least 5 to 7 years (depending on the agency). And, even with a passport, driver’s license, Social Security card, and a mortgage on a home, you cannot change your birth certificate without a court-ordered name change. Do it right the first time and get the court-ordered name change. The forms and requirements are a bit demeaning, but in the long run it’s worth the short-term humiliation to appease the gender overlords.
Unfortunately, California is hardly the progressive state people seem to think it it. States like Vermont and Minnesota have had numerous provisions in place for more than a decade to protect the gender variant; California is only just now addressing these issues at the state level.
Here is a link to the most recent forms for court ordered name changes in California:
And here is the current procedure for obtaining a new birth certificate after SRS/GRS/whatever-you-want-to-call-it:
http://www.dhs.cahwnet.gov/org/hisp/chs/OVR/Amendments/GENDER%20REASSIGNMENT.pdf (requires reader)
Here is the source document on a the government server with virtually no security:
These instructions were written by Janet McKee, as the properties of the Word doc point out. Janet is, apparently, a perfectly ordinary person who was a contractor at the time, and was apparently able to set policy by writing a document no one had attempted to create before.
At the time I went through all this nonsense, California did not yet have a policy for changing a birth certificate. With a common usage notarized certificate, which I wrote based on something I’d seen at Nolo Press, essentially stating you were changing your name without the intent to defraud or escape prosecution from a past or current conviction, I began changing my California records. So here’s what I did:
After a few hours of electrolysis, and having been on HRT for about 2 months, I decided I’d start changing over paperwork and names. Mind you, I was still working in the financial district of San Francisco for a large stock broker, and I had not transitioned yet. I had already met with HR and the managers, and had mapped out a transition plan and timetable which would go into effect the next month. So here I was with shaggy hair almost shoulder length, a scruffy face in patches as I was doing electrolysis, no breast development, and wearing a $700 Yves St. Laurent double-breasted suit and silk tie walking into the Social Security office on my lunch break. A very nice fellow behind the counter asked what I needed, and I explained I needed a new social security card. He asked if I’d lost my old one, and I said no, I was changing my name. He asked me to fill out a short form, which took me less than a minute (just some check boxes, the new name, and a signature), and he had me sit down at a back room desk with a computer. I showed him my notarized form, which looked very official and said all the right things. He keyed in the information, and asked if I wanted to change the gender on my social security account. That caught me off guard because I thought the new name clearly implied that; never assume anything in San Francisco! I said yes, please. He then asked what gender I’d like. It was then I realized he wasn’t sure which way I was going! 🙂 I said, “Female, please.” He smiled, keyed it in, told me I would not be eligible for retirement benefits until a later age, and the benefits would be for less money each month, so was I sure. As if these were the really big issues I was struggling with! Ha! I said I understood the implications, and I still wanted to go ahead with it. He committed the changes, smiled, and wished me luck. I had a new card in two weeks.
Next stop, DMV. With a new social security card, my handy notarized form (which I had notarized at a Mailboxes, Etc.), a new haircut, fresh pair of jeans and a loose sweater, clear face, and a big smile, I said “cheese” and got a new photo and a new driver’s license. I was very nervous, but everyone was very sweet, and the lady at the DMV didn’t say a word to tip off the folks in line as to what kind of paperwork was being processed. The guard held the door for me as I headed out to my car 🙂
A couple months after all that, I went through a series of rather messy, protracted custody battles and divorce proceedings involving spousal support for my ex with twice as many college degrees as I had. It started well, though, which gave me hope. The judge was a rather notorious Alameda County bigot who had a record of homophobia, and who knew *nothing* of transsexual issues. (Today, the court systems refers to a lot of this process relating to “the transgender.” I’ve never liked the term “transsexual,” and I like “transgender” about as much. The term “transgender” hadn’t even come into mainstream parlance yet, and was still only known in the transvestite/cross-dressing crowd that Virginia Prince mentored.) The judge scanned the docket, barely spending 10 seconds to absorb the information. He called me and my ex to stand. Then he began addressing my ex, who normally dresses rather butch and vibes like a guy, in a rather hostile and demeaning manor. My ex’s lawyer interrupted, and the judge asked, looking stricken, “Well, who’s the mother here?” My lawyer responded, “They both are.” Things got messy after that, but the judge was off-balance, and seemed, well, less judgmental. There were 3 more court hearings after that, following my SRS, stretching out for two years, but every time the judge made sure to use my new name and pronouns, and ultimately I was awarded joint legal and physical custody, spousal support was terminated (my ex was making more money than I was, after all!), and the records filed under my new name. That, in itself, should have been considered a legal name change!
About five years after I started down this road, I needed a new passport for business trips that would take me overseas. By this time, I had bought a house, been filing income tax, changed college records, social security, driver’s license, credit cards, utility bills, credit reports, and everything else you can imagine. The legal identity I had for the first twenty years was apparently gone, but I had bridged credit, college records, and insurance ratings to maintain the years of work I’d put into building a good reputation. The federal guidelines were clear — 5 years of using your new name, documented, and in common use, were required to obtain a new passport with a new name. An original surgeon’s letter, notarized, was required to change the gender on the passport. I made an appointment at the Federal Building in San Francisco, and arrived with two banker’s boxes filled with documents. I figured all they really wanted to see was the surgeon’s letter, DMV, SSN, and a handful of legal documents and phone bills showing the history. When my number was called, I met a very nice looking young man who apparently was the poster child for John Ashcroft’s new world order. He took my application, saw what I was requesting, and laughed…in a very ugly tone. He then shared the application with a coworker behind the bullet-proof glass, and they both had a good laugh. He told me to go away and come back when I’d had my surgery. I said I had, and showed him the letter. He made a “hmph” sound and said I needed to show at least five years of using the new name, so I showed him the choice items I’d singled out. He said he needed more. I pointed to my two boxes. He said it wasn’t good enough, and he needed a court order. Mind you, this was during the Clinton era, before the United States had gone over to the dark side and started buying illegitimate president’s that were trying to display the mark of the beast. I asked for his supervisor. He said his supervisor was at lunch. It was 4 pm. I pointed this out to him, and he just folded his arms and shrugged. (This was happening in San Francisco. Amazing. Don’t believe everything you read in the papers! The City by the Bay is almost as bad as Orange County when it comes to conservatives.) I turned around and asked one of the guards to ask for the supervisor, and young Ashcroft, Jr., asked the guard to escort me out. By this time I was in tears, and shaking rather badly. The guard felt really bad for me, and led me out gently.
I made it home, had a good cry, cursed that bastard and hoped his sperm died in his testicles (okay, maybe I didn’t curse that strenuously — I should have been a gypsy!). Then I decided the bastards wouldn’t get away with that. I had gone to San Francisco to do this so folks in my small East Bay city wouldn’t have to know my whole history. But I was pissed. So I went to my local City Hall, where I pretty much knew everyone, having lived in this town for the five years after my surgery. And I actually lucked out because the city’s supervisor was there. I explained what had happened, half expecting her to laugh at me or start gossiping right in front of me. Instead, she gave me a hug, offered me a tissue when I started getting weepy again, said I had been treated very badly, and had probably been treated illegally. She said, as far as she knew, I had followed policy to the letter. She looked up the federal guidelines, and confirmed I had all the required documents. She made photocopies of the important items, had me fill out a form, asked for my passport photos, which she complimented, and then, straight faced, asked if I wanted to pay for expedited postage or standard airmail. “That’s it? That’s all there is to it?” “That’s it!” she said. “You’ll have your new passport in about a week.” She asked me to stay a bit longer though while she called the Federal Building in The City, located the snot-nosed punk who’d treated me so badly, chewed him out, then got the supervisor on the phone and told him she was filing a complaint on my behalf, and suggested he get his staff into a sensitivity training program as soon as possible. She also pointed out they might be facing harassment charges. I left City Hall with a smile and a warm feeling inside.
Since then, I’ve traveled around the globe a few times on that passport, and it still brings back good memories of a strong woman I met in my own city hall 🙂
And here we are, nearly a decade since I started this odyssey, and I want to have my old birth certificate sealed and a new one issued. And what do I have to do to get it? File a court-ordered name change. But there’s a wrinkle. Now with Ashcroft and Ridge playing characters from “Dr. Strangelove,” there are numerous hurdles to jump through. For one thing, I’m expected to publish a notice of name change in my local paper for 6 weeks. Then I’m supposed to file papers with my old name, and sign my old name. Ummmm…. I don’t think so. After all this time, I am not outing myself all over again! Or putting myself through all that again. And besides, if I signed my old name at this point, it would be meaningless (legally). So I plan to file the court-ordered name change, without the newspaper publication, and without signing my old name, and include a terse cover letter and photocopies of current documents. I’ll explain to the judge that having me do more than this would simply be harassment, and I’m sure that was never the spirit of the law…was it? (The last being said pointedly, to let the judge know that somewhere along the line I’d learned how to be a strong woman…I’d had a few good role models 😉
I’ll keep you posted on how it goes. I expect to do the court appearance in November or December of 2003.
Attached are the current California forms to use to do the process correctly, as well as a web page from a helpful lawyer who delineates the process clearly.
And best of luck to your readers. Remember, a person’s life should not be focused on the destination, but on the journey. Or, as Buckaroo says, “Wherever you go, there you are!” Smell the roses, folks.
A reader sent this in spring 2006
I live in near Ventura and went to the Supreme Court of Ventura County. I told the young woman I wanted to legally change my name. She handed me a packet of forms and told me the cost would be $320.00. I filled out all of the forms including the section where it asks “Why” you want to change your name. I said I was a Male to Female transgender living and working full time and known to all as S__ W__. When I gave the completed forms to the young woman she proofread them. When she got to the “Why” she said, “Oh” and then looked at me and went back to proofreading. She looked surprised but recovered nicely. I paid the amount and she said the judge would sign the order and mail me a copy to be published in a newspaper for four weeks. I got the court order Saturday and faxed it to the newspaper today. The cost for this is $65.00 at the Fillmore Gazette. The will send me the appropriate documentation for the court appearance in April. It was altogether very easy.
Something else I did was go to the DMV and get a California ID. It’s good for five years and I thought it would be a good idea to have just in case I need some reference to my old name. They will likely take my drivers license when I have it changed to S__. For $20.00 it’s a cheap investment. Last year I had my doctor fill out the DMV Name and Gender Change form which put an “F” on my drivers license.
My hearing was on April 20th and Judge O’Neil was wonderful and very discreet. He did not embarass me by calling me by my previous full name. He just called my last name and asked if I had any additional documents to submit. I did not and he stated that I had met all of the requirements and therefore he granted the legal name change. The entire even lasted less than 30 minutes (there were two cases before mine). I was elated to walk out with certified copies of the court order.
Next I went to the Social Security Administration which turned out to be a great big hassle. Since I was born abroad in a US Army hospital I had to show them that I was a legal US citizen. I had to go home, get my birth certificate and go back. Then the woman said she couldn’t change my SS card as the gender marker was different in their file than in DMV. I was getting very frustrated with her as she refused to change my name without changing the gender, all of this without a surgeons letter. I tried to reason with her and finally had to sit and wait for her manager to return from lunch. When he did, he approved the name change on my SS card. That event took 2 1/2 hours.
I then went to the DMV and sailed through in 30 minutes. Since then I’ve just been working backwards in my life and changing records. I am very happy to final feel “legal” and have everything in my purse match. It’s a nice relief.
The page below has step-by-step instructions for changing your name on your license or state ID.
This is not the same as getting a Court Order for Name Change. I strongly urge you to get a court order for name change.
Transgender Law Center (TLC) is a legal civil rights organization that connects transgender people to technically sound and culturally competent legal services in California. TLC uses the word transgender in the broadest possible sense to include anyone who in any way disagrees with their birth assigned gender and/or does not conform to gender norms. TLC’s three-pronged approach is: direct legal services, public policy advocacy, and education. For more information, email email@example.com or call (415) 865 5619.
National Center for Lesbian Rights has a great document on this.
California state law
The applicable California law is at CALIFORNIA CODES CODE OF CIVIL PROCEDURE SECTION 1275-1279.6.
It can be found on the web:
CODE OF CIVIL PROCEDURE
1275. Applications for change of names must be determined by the
1276. (a) All applications for change of names shall be made to the
superior court of the county where the person whose name is proposed
to be changed resides, except as specified in subdivision (c),
either (1) by petition signed by the person or, if the person is
under 18 years of age, either by one of the person’s parents, or by
any guardian of the person, or if both parents are dead and there is
no guardian of the person, then by some near relative or friend of
the person or (2) as provided in Section 7638 of the Family Code.
The petition or pleading shall specify the place of birth and
residence of the person, his or her present name, the name proposed,
and the reason for the change of name, and shall, if neither parent
of the person has signed the petition, name, as far as known to the
person proposing the name change, the parents of the person and their
place of residence, if living, or if neither parent is living, near
relatives of the person, and their place of residence.
(b) In an action for a change of name commenced by the filing of a
(1) If the person whose name is proposed to be changed is under 18
years of age and the petition is signed by only one parent, the
petition shall specify the address, if known, of the other parent if
living. If the petition is signed by a guardian, the petition shall
specify the name and address, if known, of the parent or parents, if
living, or the grandparents, if the addresses of both parents are
unknown or if both parents are deceased, of the person whose name is
proposed to be changed.
(2) If the person whose name is proposed to be changed is 12 years
of age or over, has been relinquished to an adoption agency by his
or her parent or parents, and has not been legally adopted, the
petition shall be signed by the person and the adoption agency to
which the person was relinquished. The near relatives of the person
and their place of residence shall not be included in the petition
unless they are known to the person whose name is proposed to be
(c) All applications for the change of the name of a minor
submitted by a guardian appointed by the juvenile court or the
probate court shall be made in the appointing court.
(d) If the petition is signed by a guardian, the petition shall
specify relevant information regarding the guardianship, the
likelihood that the child will remain under the guardian’s care until
the child reaches the age of majority and information suggesting
that the child will not likely be returned to the custody of his or
1277. (a) Where an action for a change of name is commenced by the
filing of a petition, except as provided in subdivisions (b) and (c),
the court shall thereupon make an order reciting the filing of the
petition, the name of the person by whom it is filed and the name
proposed, and directing all persons interested in the matter to
appear before the court at a time and place specified, which shall be
not less than four or more than eight weeks from the time of making
the order, to show cause why the application for change of name
should not be granted. A copy of the order to show cause shall be
published pursuant to Section 6064 of the Government Code in a
newspaper of general circulation to be designated in the order
published in the county. If no newspaper of general circulation is
published in the county, a copy of the order to show cause shall be
posted by the clerk of the court in three of the most public places
in the county in which the court is located, for a like period.
Proof shall be made to the satisfaction of the court of this
publication or posting, at the time of the hearing of the
Four weekly publications shall be sufficient publication of the
order to show cause. If the order is published in a daily newspaper,
publication once a week for four successive weeks shall be
Where a petition has been filed for a minor by a parent and the
other parent, if living, does not join in consenting thereto, the
petitioner shall cause, not less than 30 days prior to the hearing,
to be served notice of the time and place of the hearing or a copy of
the order to show cause on the other parent pursuant to Section
413.10, 414.10, 415.10, or 415.40.
(b) Where the petition for a change of name alleges that the
reason for the petition is to avoid domestic violence, as defined in
Section 6211 of the Family Code, or stalking, as defined in Section
646.9 of the Penal Code, and the petitioner is a participant in the
address confidentiality program created pursuant to Chapter 3.1
(commencing with Section 6205) of Division 7 of Title 1 of the
Government Code, the petition, the order of the court, and the copy
published pursuant to subdivision (a) shall, in lieu of reciting the
proposed name, indicate that the proposed name is confidential and
will be on file with the Secretary of State pursuant to the
provisions of the address confidentiality program.
(c) An action for a change of name for a witness participating in
the state Witness Protection Program established by Title 7.5
(commencing with Section 14020) of Part 4 of the Penal Code who has
been approved for the change of name by the program is exempt from
the requirement for publication of the order to show cause under
(d) Where application for change of name is brought as part of an
action under the Uniform Parentage Act (Part 3 (commencing with
Section 7600) of Division 12 of the Family Code), whether as part of
a petition or cross-complaint or as a separate order to show cause
in a pending action thereunder, service of the application shall be
made upon all other parties to the action in a like manner as
prescribed for the service of a summons, as is set forth in Article 3
(commencing with Section 415.10) of Chapter 4 of Title 5 of Part 2.
Upon the setting of a hearing on the issue, notice of the hearing
shall be given to all parties in the action in a like manner and
within the time limits prescribed generally for the type of hearing
(whether trial or order to show cause) at which the issue of the
change of name is to be decided.
(e) Where a guardian files a petition to change the name of his or
her minor ward pursuant to Section 1276:
(1) The guardian shall provide notice of the hearing to any living
parent of the minor by personal service at least 30 days prior to
(2) If either or both parents are deceased or cannot be located,
the guardian shall cause, not less than 30 days prior to the hearing,
to be served a notice of the time and place of the hearing or a copy
of the order to show cause on the child’s grandparents, if living,
pursuant to Section 413.10, 414.10, 415.10, or 415.40.
1278. (a) Except as provided in subdivisions (c) and (d), the
application shall be heard at the time designated by the court, only
if objections are filed by any person who can, in those objections,
show to the court good reason against the change of name. At the
hearing, the court may examine on oath any of the petitioners,
remonstrants, or other persons, touching the application, and may
make an order changing the name, or dismissing the application, as to
the court may seem right and proper.
If no objection is filed the court may, without hearing, enter the
order that the change of name is granted.
(b) Where the provisions of subdivision (b) of Section 1277 apply,
the court shall not disclose the proposed name unless the court
finds by clear and convincing evidence that the allegations of
domestic violence or stalking in the petition are false.
(c) Where the application for a change of name is brought as part
of an action under the Uniform Parentage Act (Part 3 (commencing with
Section 7600) of Division 12 of the Family Code), the hearing on the
issue of the change of name shall be conducted pursuant to statutes
and rules of court governing those proceedings, whether the hearing
is conducted upon an order to show cause or upon trial.
(d) Where the application for a change of name is filed by a
guardian on behalf of a minor ward, the court shall first find that
the ward is likely to remain in the guardian’s care until the age of
majority and that the ward is not likely to be returned to the
custody of his or her parents. Upon making such findings, the court
shall consider the petition and may grant the petition only if it
finds that the proposed name change is in the best interest of the
child.1278.5. In any proceeding pursuant to this title in which a
petition has been filed to change the name of a minor, and both
parents, if living, do not join in consenting thereto, the court may
deny the petition in whole or in part if it finds that any portion of
the proposed name change is not in the best interest of the child.
1279.5. (a) Except as provided in subdivision (b), (c), (d), or
(e), nothing in this title shall be construed to abrogate the common
law right of any person to change his or her name.
(b) Notwithstanding any other law, no person imprisoned in the
state prison and under the jurisdiction of the Director of
Corrections shall be allowed to file an application for change of
name pursuant to Section 1276, except as permitted at the discretion
of the Director of Corrections.
(c) A court shall deny an application for a name change pursuant
to Section 1276 made by a person who is under the jurisdiction of the
Department of Corrections, unless that person’s parole agent or
probation officer grants prior written approval. Before granting
that approval the parole agent or probation officer shall determine
that the name change will not pose a security risk to the community.
(d) Notwithstanding any other law, a court shall deny an
application for a name change pursuant to Section 1276 made by a
person who is required to register as a sex offender under Section
290 of the Penal Code, unless the court determines that it is in the
best interest of justice to grant the application and that doing so
will not adversely affect the public safety. If an application for a
name change is granted for an individual required to register as a
sex offender, the individual shall, within five working days, notify
the chief of police of the city in which he or she is domiciled, or
the sheriff of the county if he or she is domiciled in an
unincorporated area, and additionally, with the chief of police of a
campus of a University of California or California State University
if he or she is domiciled upon the campus or in any of its
(e) For the purpose of this section, the court shall use the
California Law Enforcement Telecommunications System (CLETS) and
Criminal Justice Information System (CJIS) to determine whether or
not an applicant for a name change is under the jurisdiction of the
Department of Corrections or is required to register as a sex
offender pursuant to Section 290 of the Penal Code. Each person
applying for a name change shall declare under penalty of perjury
that he or she is not under the jurisdiction of the Department of
Corrections or is required to register as a sex offender pursuant to
Section 290 of the Penal Code. If a court is not equipped with CLETS
or CJIS, the clerk of the court shall contact an appropriate local
law enforcement agency which shall determine whether or not the
applicant is under the jurisdiction of the Department of Corrections
or is required to register as a sex offender pursuant to Section 290
of the Penal Code.
1279.6. No person engaged in a trade or business of any kind or in
the provision of a service of any kind shall do any of the following:
(a) Refuse to do business with a woman, or refuse to provide the
service to a woman, regardless of her marital status, because she has
chosen to use or regularly uses her birth name or former name.
(b) Impose, as a condition of doing business with a woman, or as a
condition of providing the service to a woman, a requirement that
the woman, regardless of her marital status, use a name other than
her birth name or former name if she has chosen to use or regularly
uses her birth name or former name.
I received the following instructions from a reader in November 2004.
How I changed my name in California
I 1st set an appointment with my psychiatrist to fill out DMV form DL328. I got the form through this helpful yahoo group which has form DL328 available for download. I filled this form out like below:
I didn’t actually need to have my psychiatrist fill out that form: any medical doctor would do. I was told that a therapist with even a PhD would not have qualified.
I also needed to have form DL44 filled out. The DMV said that only an original form would do: not a copy. I called the DMV and had them mail me two of the forms. I filled it out as common sense would dictate as it was pretty straight forward.
I had previously set an appointment with the DMV and I went in with both forms. The lady who helped me had to look up some regulations, but otherwise it went very smoothly. I have heard of others who say they’ve had problems at this step. If the clerk asked me for my court ordered name change I would have answered that this is my name change: that the California constitution allows for immediate spontaneous name change. Had I continued to have a problems, I would have asked for a supervisor.
Note: as of April 15th 2001 Sally Walker at the DMV (916) 657-4484 is supposed to be available for help regarding TS name change issues.
But I didn’t have a problem.
I got my temporary license and headed straight over to the Social Security office. This was needed immediately as the DMV checks SS#s on the name change form against the Social Security records.
The security guard asked to see my name change, but I told him California law doesn’t require a court order, and that the process I was doing that day was my name change. He let me in and I filled out the SS form there to change my records as I waited. Again, this was common sense, and I just asked the guard which form to use.
The clerk said they couldn’t change the sex on my records without a letter from my Dr saying I had SRS. They did however, change my name after seeing my old ID and then my new temporary license.
My next step was to change my bank records. I did this by waiting for my new driver license with my picture, and I took that into my bank, and after a few minutes of the clerk checking her procedures, I had it changed. For all my credit cards I sent them a printed scan of my old driver license and SS card as well as a printed scan of my new driver license and SS card. That, plus a letter that I made and filled out I sent them. Here is a sample letter I sent:
New Full Name
Account Number: ________________________
1234 Any St.
Anywhere, CA 90000
Re: Name/Gender Change:
From: Old Full Name / Male
To: New Full Name / Female
Please change my name on your records from: Old Full Name to: New Full Name for account number: _________________________. Also, if you have a gender flag, please change that to female. New Full Name has been my name since September 18th 2001.
Please see a large scan of my new and old Driver License and Social Security Card.
Lastly, please notify me when you have made the change.
_____________________ Date: ___/____/2004
Old signature: _____________________
Old Full Name
This worked for all my credit cards. Next up was when I wanted my passport. I had my Therapist write me a letter saying that I would be having SRS and traveling to Thailand, and that a passport with Female on it would help me out. I also included a copy of my old and new driver license and SS cards.
The DS-11 is currently available at
and the DS-19 has been superceded by the DS-5504, found at
Alternatively, the “Passport Application Wizard” at https://pptform.state.gov/ will automatically generate the correct form after a few questions are answered.]
I then went to the State Dept website and followed the instructions here on how to apply for a passport. I brought two passport pictures, the printouts mentioned above, my therapist’s letter, a certified copy of my birth certificate, and the filled out application for a passport to a location that processed the applications.
I got my passport with Female on it, but it only lasted one year. I was told it would be extended when I submitted a letter from my SRS surgeon saying SRS was preformed. When I got home, I send the State Dept that SRS letter, form DS19 filled out, and I sent them a copy of this letter certified with a return receipt:
I did receive my amended passport with the extended expiration date along with my SRS letter within a few months.
The only main things now needed changed were my birth certificate and my college records. I have already been living with my new name for years, but I still needed to go to court to change my name yet again for my birth certificate and for my college records. I always knew I would have to do this, and I dreaded going to court. That’s why I did my 1st name change steps how I did above since I would have to go to court yet again to change my birth certificate.
I basically followed these instructions which I found at Dr Becky’s great site. It said that I would need to order form VS24(S) here. I then when to California’s court info page here and downloaded the following forms:
Form nc200.pdf has important instructions on the 2nd page that I followed. I filled out all the above forms (but cm010.pdf was not used in Orange County so I tossed it when at the courthouse clerk’s counter), and anywhere where it asked for name of petitioner I put my old name otherwise it was straight forward. I made sure I dated everywhere that needed to be dated and signed wherever it called for (old name – ugh).
I went to Orange County’s Probate Court which for me was:
Lamoreaux Justice Center (LJC)341 The City DriveOrange, CA 92868-3209(714) 935-7000
I asked a guard where I should apply to change my name and he told me. I waited in line and when I saw the clerk she went over my paperwork and said the hard part was over with. I picked a newspaper from a list she gave me and I added that to form nc220.pdf. I should have already done that from a list available here for OC. I’m sure that info is available at other county courthouse websites.
I was given a date to appear, and I paid their fee. When I got home I called the newspaper I chose, gave them my credit card number and I faxed in form nc220.pdf.
When my time came, they called me by my last name only which was nice since that could have been embarrassing otherwise. They asked for a certified copy of my birth certificate which I showed them. They gave that back and said the change was approved! They asked me how many certified copies of the court order I’d want and I said seven which was expensive, but I thought I’d play it safe. I picked up those copies at the clerks office and walked out of there on a cloud.
Now to get vital statistics to change my birth certificate. I had already received form VS24(S) and followed the instructions that it came with as well as the these instructions referenced above. I basically looked at my current birth certificate and noted the box numbers that needed to be changed. Here is that form (though they need an original):
They also send out a form that needed to be notarized to get the new certified copy of my new birth certificate. They provide one new certified copy of my birth certificate and charge for any extra. I believe it cost me $35 for the change and an extra copy. I sent out those forms certified mail with a return receipt, and got a postcard in the mail saying I had a 10 month wait. However, after less than half that time I got my new birth certificate! The final things I did was take an extra SRS letter and court order over to the Social Security office and have my gender marker changed. They said all they really needed was my SRS letter and the court order was optional. About a month after I called them and asked for a confirmation of the change which they confirmed. Lastly, I wrote the Admissions and Records office of my college and sent them a certified copy of my court order and a letter that I cannibalized and changed a bit from my letter to banks above. About a month after, I requested a copy of my transcripts and there was my new name with no mention of the old! There are a few other things that I will need to do. The main thing is to deal with credit agencies and change that info, but that is for another day. Perhaps another year. The above does not constitute legal advice, but is rather a simple narrative of how I changed my name in California.
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November 29, 2004