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A transgender map!

This site has been one of my great life projects. I made it so that young people and adults will know the all the choices they have.

I can still answer all questions I get because readers like you search the site before writing.

I can’t answer questions on

  • Local doctors, therapists, groups, etc.
  • Local people for friendship or romance
  • What it “feels like” to transition
  • Personal things about me
  • Legal things
  • Insurance things
  • Most medical things
  • Hormones and effects

I will do my best to answer questions

I will also respond to all suggestions, praise and constructive criticism. Don’t be shy in sending these along!


  1. Use a short but specific subject line (not “Hi” or “Question”).
  2. Be as specific as possible. Vague questions take longer to answer.
  3. If you are 13 or over, you may email me at: I cannot answer questions from people ages 12 and under. If you are that age, please have your parents contact me instead.
  4. Be patient! I get a lot of messages and answer them all, so it might be a while.

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If this site was helpful, please help me continue this work!

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Mail: Andrea James, 5419 Hollywood Blvd. C142, Los Angeles, CA 90027