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Barbara Kay is a Canadian writer and anti-transgender activist.

Background

Barbara Kay was born on November 27, 1943 and grew up in Toronto with siblings.

Kay earned a bachelor’s degree from University of Toronto and a master’s degree from McGill University in 1966.

Kay wrote opinion pieces for the National Post before becoming a columnist in 2003. Kay has also written for in The Post MillennialPajamaThe WalrusCanadian Jewish News (CJNews), and Epoch Times. Key briefly wrote for Rebel News in 2017 before leaving due to views held by some staffers.

Kay and spouse Ronny Kay married in 1964 and have two children, including anti-trans activist Jonathan Kay.

Anti-transgender activism

Kay opposed Canada’s Bill C-16, which added “gender identity or expression” to protected classes in regards to discrimination, hate speech, and hate crimes.

In criticizing the bill in the Post Millennial, Kay described it as “velvet totalitarianism” and misattributed a quotation to Voltaire: “To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize.” The passage was actually by white nationalist Kevin Alfred Strom describing Jewish people.

Kay told publication Canadaland:

“With regard to the application of the quote to the Church of Gender Identity, I do not regret it at all, and here is why. The quotation makes a great deal of sense. The fact that an anti-Semitic conspiracy theorist actually believed that the Jews ‘rule over you’ says a great deal about his twisted mind, but it does not reflect reality. I am neither a conspiracy theorist or a transphobic. My quarrel is not with trans gender people, who — I have said this repeatedly — simply want to live their lives in peace, but with the ideologues who are bent on imposing their belief system, founded in theory, but not in evidence, on everyone in the form of compelled speech and compelled expression of belief. The words of the quotation in fact make very good sense. That the mind who thought it up was corrupted by hatred to the point that he was delusionary about who ‘you cannot criticize’ is not my fault.”

During a July 18, 2018 Rights and Freedoms Institute event, Kay used the phrase again to condemn gender neutral pronouns as “compelled speech” and “compelled expression of belief.”

Kay’s Facebook profile uses the anti-trans dogwhistle “Adult human Female.” Kay and anti-trans activist Linda Blade wrote the 2021 book Unsporting: How Trans Activism and Science Denial are Destroying Sport.

References

Strom, Kevin A (August 14, 1993). All America Must Know the Terror That is Upon UsAmerican Dissident Voices via America First Books http://www.amfirstbooks.com/IntroPages/ToolBarTopics/Articles/Featured_Authors/strom,_kevin/kevin_strom_works/Kevin_Strom_1991-1994/Kevin_A._Strom_19930814-ADV_All_America_Must_Know_the_Terror_That_Is_Upon_Us.html [archive]

Reuters Fact Check (February 5, 2022). ‘To learn who rules over you’ quote wrongly attributed to Voltaire. Reuters https://www.reuters.com/article/factcheck-voltaire-quote/fact-check-to-learn-who-rules-over-you-quote-wrongly-attributed-to-voltaire-idUSL1N2UE2LM

Adriaans, Eric (June 14, 2018). Panel Discussion: Bill C-16 Controversy. Toronto: Rights and Freedoms Institute. https://freedom-of-expression.ca/2018/06/14/panel-discussion-bill-c-16-controversy/ [archive]

Goldsbie, Jonathan (July 26, 2018). Barbara Kay Quotes Neo-Nazi To Justify Attack On Trans Identity: The line, which she and others have misattributed to Voltaire, was originally penned to justify criticism of JewsCanadaland http://www.canadalandshow.com/barbara-kay-quotes-neo-nazi-to-justify-attack-on-trans-identity/ [archive]

Selected anti-trans writing by Kay

Kay, Barbara (March 16, 2025). Barbara Kay: A chance for fairness in women’s sport. National Post https://nationalpost.com/opinion/protecting-fairness-in-womens-sport

Kay, Barbara (August 11, 2024). Barbara Kay: Groundswell against gender-affirming care becoming too loud to ignore. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/groundswell-against-gender-affirming-care-becoming-too-loud-to-ignore

Kay, Barbara (April 20, 2024). Barbara Kay: CBC doubles down on unscientific youth transgender care in wake of Cass Review. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/cbc-doubles-down-on-unscientific-youth-transgender-care-in-wake-of-cass-review

Kay, Barbara (April 7, 2024). Barbara Kay: Lawsuits could be the answer to unfair, trans-inclusive women’s sports. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-lawsuits-could-be-the-answer-to-unfair-trans-inclusive-womens-sports

Kay, Barbara (March 10, 2024). Barbara Kay: Leaked files expose the ethical rot behind modern transgender medicine.https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-leaked-files-expose-the-ethical-rot-behind-modern-transgender-medicine

Kay, Barbara (December 3, 2023). Barbara Kay: Silenced teacher becomes a hero of the anti-woke resistance. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/silenced-teacher-becomes-a-hero-of-the-anti-woke-resistance

Kay, Barbara (October 8, 2023). Barbara Kay: The movement to oppose gender activism in schools is growing — and science is on its side. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/the-movement-to-oppose-gender-activism-in-schools-is-growing-and-science-is-on-its-side

Kay, Barbara (September 9, 2023). Barbara Kay: Like Jordan Peterson, these medical professionals won’t be silenced. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/like-jordan-peterson-these-medical-professionals-wont-be-silenced

Kay, Barbara (July 23, 2023). Barbara Kay: Breaking the ideological logjam over transgender youth health. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/breaking-the-ideological-logjam-over-transgender-youth-health

Kay, Barbara (April 29, 2023). Barbara Kay: Woke Dylan Mulvaney campaign was destined to be a Bud Light failure. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/woke-dylan-mulvaney-campaign-was-never-going-to-work-for-bud-light

Kay, Barbara (February 5, 2023). Barbara Kay: Scotland scandalized over rapists placed in women’s prisons, while Canada turns a blind eye. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/scotland-scandalized-over-rapists-placed-in-womens-prisons-while-canada-turns-a-blind-eye

Kay, Barbara (January 21, 2023). Barbara Kay: Fairness may be coming back to sport. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/fairness-may-be-coming-back-to-sport

Kay, Barbara (September 24, 2022). Barbara Kay: How StatsCan is contradicting its own data on trans Canadians. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-how-statscan-is-contradicting-its-own-data-on-trans-canadians

Kay, Barbara (August 6, 2022). Barbara Kay: Tavistock closure highlights harms caused by radical gender theorists. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-tavistock-closure-highlights-harms-caused-by-radical-gender-theorists

Kay, Barbara (April 9, 2022). Barbara Kay: When gender rights only protect those who do not fit stereotypes. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-in-ontario-schools-gender-rights-only-protect-those-who-do-not-fit-stereotypes

Kay, Barbara (December 20, 2021). Barbara Kay: The case for an ‘open’ category to welcome trans athletes in sports. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-case-for-an-open-category-to-welcome-trans-athletes-in-sports

Kay, Barbara (August 29, 2021). Barbara Kay: Trudeau the fake feminist ignores female inmates’ concerns. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-trudeau-the-fake-feminist-ignores-female-inmates-concerns

Kay, Barbara (June 21, 2021). Barbara Kay: The complicated truth about transwomen in women’s prisons. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-complicated-truth-about-transwomen-in-womens-prisons

Kay, Barbara (June 7, 2021). Barbara Kay: Transgender weightlifter may expose the unfairness of trans athletes in Tokyo. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-transgender-weightlifter-may-expose-the-unfairness-of-trans-athletes-in-tokyo

Kay, Barbara (April 23, 2021). Barbara Kay: Gad Saad — the man who’s not afraid to call BS. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-gad-saad-the-man-whos-not-afraid-to-call-bs

Kay, Barbara (April 12, 2021). Barbara Kay: Without exemptions to protect women in prison, gender identity laws are unconstitutional. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-without-exemptions-to-protect-women-in-prison-gender-identity-laws-are-unconstitutional

Kay, Barbara (November 27, 2020). Barbara Kay: The problems with Bill C-6 and the gender affirmation model. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-problems-with-bill-c-6-and-the-gender-affirmation-model

Kay, Barbara (November 20, 2020). Barbara Kay: The case for deep-sixing Bill C-6. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-case-for-deep-sixing-bill-c-6

Kay, Barbara (November 6, 2020). Barbara Kay: I know a misogynistic sports policy when I see it. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-i-know-a-misogynistic-sports-policy-when-i-see-it

Kay, Barbara (October 23, 2020). Barbara Kay: Transgender sports policies have thrown fair play out the window. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-transgender-sports-policies-have-thrown-fair-play-out-the-window

Kay, Barbara (January 23, 2020). Barbara Kay: Will 2020 will be the year of reason in the cancel-culture wars? https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-will-2020-will-be-the-year-of-reason-in-the-cancel-culture-wars

Kay, Barbara (November 19, 2019). Barbara Kay: Douglas Murray is a writer who says what the rest of us would like to. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-writer-who-says-what-the-rest-of-us-would-like-to

Kay, Barbara (October 24, 2019). Barbara Kay: How feminist Meghan Murphy fell victim to progressives’ double standard. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-a-feminist-falls-victim-to-progressives-double-standards

Kay, Barbara (June 25, 2019). Barbara Kay: When gender identity education and theory goes wrong. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-when-gender-identity-education-and-theory-goes-wrong

Kay, Barbara (November 13, 2018). Barbara Kay: For culture warrior David Horowitz, deplatforming is no deterrent. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-for-culture-warrior-david-horowitz-deplatforming-is-no-deterrent

Kay, Barbara (September 13, 2018). Barbara Kay: Diluting the meaning of ‘woman,’ to appease transgender activists, is misogyny. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-transwomen-deserve-respect-but-they-arent-women

Kay, Barbara (August 22, 2018). Barbara Kay: A new report sounds the alarm on Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-a-new-report-sounds-the-alarm-on-rapid-onset-gender-dysphoria

Kay, Barbara (July 10, 2018). Barbara Kay: One woman’s journey from social-justice warrior to free-speech champion. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-one-womans-journey-from-social-justice-warrior-to-free-speech-champion

Kay, Barbara (July 3, 2018). Barbara Kay: Suggestions for the new Ontario sex-ed curriculum. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-suggestions-for-the-new-ontario-sex-ed-curriculum

Kay, Barbara (July 7, 2018). Bill C-16, or The Transgender Identity Bill, is an act of “Velvet Totalitarianism.” The Post Millennial https://www.thepostmillennial.com/bill-c-16-or-the-transgender-identity-bill-is-an-act-of-velvet-totalitarianism/

Kay, Barbara (March 6, 2018). Barbara Kay: There’s no safe space on campus to debate bathroom politics. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-theres-no-safe-space-on-campus-to-debate-bathroom-politics

Kay, Barbara (January 24, 2018). Barbara Kay: B.C. school official protests ‘transgender education’ — and pays the price. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-b-c-school-official-protests-transgender-education-and-pays-the-price

Kay, Barbara (December 13, 2017). Barbara Kay: Parents face scorn for worrying about letting their children change genders. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-parents-victimized-in-the-identity-vs-mental-health-battle-over-transgendered-children

Kay, Barbara (February 14, 201). Barbara Kay: Enter Milo Yiannopoulos, progressivism’s spawn and history’s pendulum in action. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-enter-milo-yiannopoulos-progessivisms-spawn-and-historys-pendulum-in-action

Kay, Barbara (January 24, 2017). Barbara Kay: Betsy DeVos’ support of due process on campuses makes her an excellent pick for secretary of education. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-betsy-devos-support-of-due-process-on-campuses-makes-her-an-excellent-pick-for-secretary-of-education

Kay, Barbara (July 31, 2012). Barbara Kay: The cold, cramped, atheistic world of Sam Harris. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-the-cold-cramped-atheistic-world-of-sam-harris

Kay, Barbara (May 21, 2012). Barbara Kay: Jenna Talackova goes double dipping in the theatre of gender politics. https://nationalpost.com/opinion/barbara-kay-jenna-talakova-goes-double-dipping-in-the-theatre-of-gender-politics

Kay, Barbara (May 25, 2011). Barbara Kay: A child’s biology is not a matter of choice. https://nationalpost.com/full-comment/barbara-kay-a-childs-biology-is-not-a-matter-of-choice

Kay, Barbara (May 10, 2010). Barbara Kay: Support Pride or you’re a homophobe. https://nationalpost.com/full-comment/barbara-kay-support-pride-or-youre-a-homophobe

Kay, Barbara (April 28, 2010). Barbara Kay: The cult of multisexualism. https://nationalpost.com/full-comment/barbara-kay-the-cult-of-multisexualism

Media

Leaders on the Frontier David Leis and Barbara Kay (September 18, 2024). We Are Letting Our Children Down | Barbara Kay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPAgtiEyyu4

Leaders on the Frontier David Leis and Barbara Kay (September 17, 2024). UK Shutting Down Gender Affirming Centres, Canada’s Ignoring This | Barbara Kay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nGstDH97jk

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (August 8, 2023). Transgenderism in schools: A feature interview with Barbara Kay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZUNhuKC6nk

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (Jul 20, 2023). Barbara Kay calls out the sexualization of children through trans activism and gender ideology. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9u8qhOloYlc

The Democracy Fund with Kim Jones, Heather Mason, Amy Hamm, Jenn Smith, (September 15, 2022). LIVE EVENT: Protecting Women’s Spaces In The Age of Transgenderism. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycorHLs2qco

Unsafe Space with Carter Laren, Juliet Dillon, Mia Cathell, and Barbara Kay (August 1, 2022). [Narrative Dissonance] Gender Identity Clinic Forced to Close | With Barbara Kay & Mia Cathell

Unsafe Space with Carter Laren, Keri Smith, and Barbara Kay (July 27, 2021). [Deprogrammed] Unsporting: Linda Blade and Barbara Kay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR8AIjpR1KQ

Juno News with Candice Malcolm and Barbara Kay (May 26, 2020). Ep. 5 | Barbara Kay | The Woke Left, Cancel Culture and Radical Trans Activism. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLs6h4csXa8

Juno News with Andrew Lawton and Barbara Kay (February 6, 2020). Trans Politics and Free Speech (feat. Barbara Kay). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0PL0tNJX0s

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay discussing Ken Zucker (January 28, 2020). Barbara Kay on the gender dysphoria researcher overcoming cancel culture | Ezra Levant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6b3NmOhCJr8

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (December 17, 2019). Barbara Kay: Ontario mother takes on school’s trans ideology with Human Rights claim | Ezra Levant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9I02_n7M6X8

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (October 26, 2019). Barbara Kay: “Trans exclusionary” feminist Meghan Murphy is being protested (again) | Ezra Levant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNELHTfNXqY

Faytene TV with Faytene Grasseschi and Barbara Kay (October 2, 2019). Barbara Kay on Gender, Genital Waxing, Freedom, Marijuana, Integrity & The Election. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PHW2bVU650

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (August 23, 2019). Barbara Kay: Transgenders sue rape shelter for “discrimination” | Ezra Levant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdr2EFoK6hI

Bridge City News with Paul Arthur and Barbara Kay (July 5, 2019). Paul Arthur interviews Barbara Kay on the dangers of gender fluidity – July 4, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jkNX5ygxso

Unsafe Space with Carter Laren, Keri Smith, and Barbara Kay (June 27, 2019). [Deprogrammed] Barbara Kay on Trans Activism. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RZNeN4XjLE

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (March 6, 2019). Barbara Kay: Trans athletes have “erased” REAL women from sports. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJFyJh2RWco

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (November 23, 2018). Trans “woman” gets light sentence for sexually assaulting daughter. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fN9LrBEyvI

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (October 19, 2018). Barbara Kay: Trans athletes will end women’s sports. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ph4Y26MABnU

SFS York panel with Debra Soh, Lindsay Shepherd, Jared Brown, Sarina Singh, and Barbara Kay (July 31, 2018). BILL C-16 and COMPELLED SPEECH: One Year Later. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PPXwcYtHn0

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (July 17, 2018). Gender identity programs are junk science | Barbara Kay. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LqleYq_Azo

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (July 2, 2019). Barbara Kay: School defends teaching transgender to tots | Ezra Levant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkl0wwuWohU

Ideacity with Mark Steyn and Barbara Kay (June 26, 2018). Barbara Kay & Mark Steyn – Freedom of Speech. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7P9bQ_PwfM

LGBT Canada In The Media (July 14, 2018). Barbara Kay – Teaching Gender Identity Is Child Abuse & Gaslights Kids | Ontario Sex Ed Curriculum [CBC News clip]. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilyXXIg_4uE

Rebel News with Ezra Levant and Barbara Kay (May 9, 2018). Barbara Kay: Non-binary birth certificates are “nuts.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z0hFJVyEUOg

Resources

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